Gratitude and Holiday Celebrations

Happy Holidays!

Over the past few weeks, I have been reflecting on the many blessings that I feel so incredibly grateful for, including many memories with regard to the girls I work with. One of the main things I have noticed is that no matter what the circumstances, celebration and gratitude are universal. 

Here in the United States, for many people, the holidays are a time of rejoicing with family and abundance. We have traditions including gatherings, shared experiences, meals, and exchanging gifts with loved ones. Holidays in the US have grown over the past many years to become quite commercial and, for many, an excuse to spend money. Unfortunately, this can often takeaway from the real purpose: gratitude, love, and family. Personally, the highlight of each holiday season for me is a sense of appreciation and reflection on so many blessings. 

For girls in Africa, there are many similarities as well as differences in the way that they celebrate the holiday season. For starters, it is hot and dusty there and people certainly aren't wishing for a white Christmas. They live very close to the equator and at this time of year they are hoping for rain. Sadly, this year the rain has been extremely scarce, resulting in a horrible drought. There may not be Christmas trees and snow on the ground, but that certainly doesn’t mean it isn't a festive time. Those with a stereo or speakers will likely blare loud music and people run around in the neighborhoods with smiles from ear to ear. 

To me, one of the most remarkable aspects of their celebration is the notion that with all of the hardships and challenges everyone in these communities face, they are still able to show so much gratitude and appreciation for the things they do have. Rather than looking at life as a glass half empty, most view it is a glass half full which is truly inspirational!

This photo is from a meal that I shared with some of the girls which would replicate something similar to a holiday meal they would have with their families.

This photo is from a meal that I shared with some of the girls which would replicate something similar to a holiday meal they would have with their families.

Their holiday celebration is somewhat social, and many people search for who among their friends have enough resources to share a special meal. Sadly, most people cannot afford to provide their own family with one. Even since the last update the issue of food insecurity (meaning people are unsure of where their next meal will be coming from) has risen to record levels. It now stands at 60% of the population. 

Additionally, if any of the girls are fortunate enough to receive gifts they typically get basic everyday clothing. People will keep tag attached because it is a point of pride to have the luxury of something new. That may not seem like much, but it is actually a really big deal.

Overall, no matter the amount of hardship the feeling of gratitude during the holidays is global. It is also a wonderful reminder not to only be thankful for gifts and fancy meals, but also to step back and realize the many blessings that we all have no matter what circumstances we face.

One of the things that I feel so blessed for is the opportunity to work with the amazing girls living in Zimbabwe and Zambia. My heart goes out to them this season and I hope that they had an amazing celebration with their families. Thank you all for your constant support over the past year! I ask that each of you head into the New Year with an open mind and heart full of gratitude because that is what this season is all about! Thank you again for making such a huge difference in the lives of people both near and far!!

Love,

Emily